As people, we are always watching. Constantly viewing and consuming the world around us. Weāve been watching YouTube, Facebook, Vine, Instagram, and Tik Tok videos of anything from people cooking to cats playing the piano. There are even videos of people just eating, āMukbangsā if you will, or daily vlogs of people going about their everyday lives.
However, itās even more interesting to watch people in real life instead of virtually. It isnāt in the Joe Goldberg sort of every-step-you-take type of stalking. It has less to do about stalking people and more about the observation of the human experience.
Itās enjoyable to just observe people from afar and create attributions for their actions. For example, you could see someone going about their day walking their dog in Central Park, but this someone is not just anyone, sheās Rebecca sheās 24, and sheās walking her pug, Tony after her Pilates class.

The best thing about New York is getting a short glimpse into someoneās story, even if itās for a few seconds or from their apartment window. People watching is good from a higher perspective because you can pretend to be the narrator of some movie, but you can essentially do this anywhere: a restaurant, the roof or the fire escape, in a park, and on the steps of the Met.

Might I say, Washington Square Park is a very interesting place to people watch? This is simply because there is a huge array of people. Not just your typical city business people. There are unique people. People selling clothes, people selling drugs, people doing drugs, people writing poetry, people skateboarding, people sunbathing, people painting themselves and pretending to be statues. There are street performers, of course, people walking their dogs, and there are also people blasting music. Iām from California, and if thereās anything I could compare it to, itās Venice Beach. The only difference is thereās a lot less weed and no beach.
People watching is extra interesting when youāre single because you can either be disgusted by the couples around you or live vicariously through them. Conan Gray came out with a song called āPeople Watchingā that describes this exact phenomenon. With regards to falling in love, he says: āone day Iāll be falling, without caution, but for now Iām just people watching.ā The act of watching people be in love can be quite painful when youāre lonely.
Another interesting place to people-watch is on the Subway. Everyone has somewhere to be and seems to be in their own world. Some people move nomadically from train to train, in attempts to make a living. For example, people that play instruments, sell knick-knacks, sell snacks, or perform other unique talents. The sounds of the child crying and the sound of the violin makes for a theatrical subway ride.
These interesting characters extend to Times Square. There are several people in costumes, people preaching and performing. One of my favorites is a street performer, artist, and puppeteer named Jonothon Lyons who dresses up in a rat costume as, āBuddy the Ratā. He produces videos of people reacting to his rat regalia on the street and in the subway. Rats are such a big part of New York culture, and Lyons uses that to his advantage. He turns people-watching into art.
Despite being in our own worlds, as city inhabitants, we are not immune to reacting to the things that we find interesting or surprising in public. Whether we make comments on our observations or not, people-watching still proves to be entertaining. We donāt really know everyoneās story but we know everyone has one so sometimes itās fun to just be creative.
